The Helps

When someone asked about what's the reason of helping the one who have hurt you, I just couldn't answer it properly. I have many reasons for helping others. Somehow, I want to make their parents proud of them, or I just want to give them a little happiness that they may never get from others. But those reasons still make no sense.

For the case of someone who ever broke my pride into pieces, it became more difficult to do. Because by doing such things, I must deal with my hatred, my friend's complains, and his new relationship that still stretch the scar in my wound.

Sometimes I want to escape, put him in a hard situation, and leaving him in depression and sufferings. I want him to experience the things like how hard I have suffered for something that he have done to me before.  Unfortunately, I still couldn't do that.

You may have reasons for hating someone, but for helping someone, is there any concrete reasons? Somehow it just became our intuition as a human being. And I thought everyone was deserve the helps, no matter how bad the thing they have done.

And for "Why you still helping someone who have hurt you?", maybe this phrase will  answer the question :
"Because we couldn't cure our own sufferings by making other suffers"